The following are links to the audio files of a conference from January 2023. There are three audio files, and below them are the links to the videos that were played during the conference, as well as the informational sheet that was gone over in session 3.
Im sorry that this first audio file doesn't start until 1:26 but don't know why! Just fast forward to that point I guess!
Im also sorry that the audio recording had a malfunction and this session missed the first half of the recording. Oh Technology how we love you.
"Manifesto Doc"
Informational Sheet for Reference
* Proverbs 31 Therapy and Theology Series on YouTube
* “Control Girl” book by Shannon Popkin
* “The Empowered Wife” book by Laura Doyle Book and Podcast (Episode 161)
* Leslie Vernic: YouTube and Books. Marriage help, and clarity on Biblical Relationships.
GOD TRIBE - my personal manifesto!
G- Generous: Believe people are doing the best they can!
*GRATEFUL
O- On The Hook: I don’t make myself the exception
*On My Own Paper
D- Discreet/Dignified: careful in actions and speech to avoid causing offense or to gain an advantage
*DUCT TAPE
T- Tenderhearted: Being Kind and Gentle. Looking for the best in others. Not suspicious!
*Take Care of Me/self care
R- Reliable: Stable, Steady and sincere!
*Receive Well
I- Integrity: Living whole, undivided, honest and with strong moral principles.
*”I Hear You” Listening Well=Respect. Doesn’t mean I Agree!
B- Bordered: Healthy Relational Boundaries
*Be Squeaky Clean with Accountability. What was My Part in the Problem? only if 1% me? Be Vulnerable
E- Expectant: Full of Belief knowing God is Working and Moving in your life!
*Express needs Not Complaints!
LEARN WHEN TRIGGERED!
Ask Myself ::
- What am I afraid of?
- Is my fear realistic?
- Can I actually control the situation?
- Is it worth losing the intimacy trying to control?
CORE:
It needs to be strengthened!
Committed to truth
Open to the Holy Spirit
Responsible and respectful
Empathetic and compassionate
JADE: things NOT to do
Justify
Argue
Defend
Explain
Six Relationship Skills
°Self Care :: Show Up Whole
°Restore Respect :: It’s like Oxygen
°Relinquish control :: Of Others
°Receive Graciously :: Be Please-able!
°Be Vulnerable :: Road of Intimacy
°Express Gratitude :: The Power of Words
Eliminate :: Replace!! Look for the positive you can reinforce or BE instead of the negative Complaining :: Cheerful
Criticizing :: Compliment
Comparing :: Content
Correcting :: Charitable
Condemning :: Compassionate
This is the outline content that was supplied at the conference.
Heartland Outline for Ladies conference
Key Passage: John 4:1-38
Key Verse: 35 Say not ye, There are yet four months, and [then] cometh harvest? behold, I say unto you,
Lift up your eyes, and look on the fields; for they are white already to harvest.
Session 1: Lift up your eyes,
The Great Commandment: Introspection
Mat 22:37-38 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment.
We must first realize we need our sight corrected, uncolored and clear Corrected: SALVATION
Uncolored: Thoughts
Clear: seeing In Light
Session 2 and look on the fields;
The Great Commission: Circumspection
Mat 22:39And the second [is] like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
1 Cor 13:13
Faith Hope (introspection- Inward) greatest is charity (Outward)
Charity bears believes hopes endures... all things
Examples from being in the field
Session 3:
Some tools to emotionally mature and OBEY the Lord
